Most weekday mornings I just don't know what to do to keep from blowing my top off.
It's silly...I know. My girls are very good girls but we do have a few issues around here.
Every morning I struggle with Annika's strangely sensitive to clothing issues. She only wears very loose dresses. She hates wearing pants, leggings, or -gasp!-tights. She hates socks.
This wasn't an issue until now. It's getting colder and she needs to wear warmer clothes. They do play outside at recess time even if it's cold outside. I can't have her freezing her tushie off because she's stubborn.
So...that comes to my weekday morning routine of late. It goes something like this....
- Trying to wake Annika from her deep sleep. Naturally she doesn't want to get up. Go and try for about 10 minutes to get her up. (of course she refuses to sleep in on the weekends!!!!).
- Have Annika dress herself. I have Annika pick out her clothes for the night before. It's always a dress. Why can't she pick out one of the many lovely long-sleeved shirts and pants that she owns?
- Remind Annika that she needs to wear either leggings, pants or tights under her dress because it's freezing outside.
- Listen to her argue and then start to cry.
- Try rationalizing with her- I mean I do understand about not liking the way clothes fit. I used to hate clothes that constricted my neck & socks. Try reminding her that we'd discussed that when the temperature dipped below a certain point she had to wear something on her legs.
- Rationalizing doesn't work.
- Just make her wear leggings or pants (forget tights- she won't wear them!) and listen to crying through most of breakfast.
- Now it's time for socks. Another crying game. Don't listen and she just try to shoe the girls into the car quickly without blowing my top off.
- Repeat tomorrow morning.
Okay, so it's not like this EVERY morning but close to it. Some mornings are better than others. Last year Annika would actually wear pants and shirts but so far that isn't happening this year. I would LOVE it if she would wear pants and a shirt! Do you know how difficult it is to shop for her? I went to Kohl's yesterday hoping for a dress for her...forget it! I can certainly order them from Hanna Andersson, Gymboree or Land's End but I'm sure you can guess they cost a small fortune. (thank goodness we'll get double use out of them since Ava can wear them too). Also, a HUGE thanks to Oma for sending us dresses....I don't know what I would have done without them!
So...what the heck can I do?
For the record, I do love dresses. I love that she loves to wear them. However, I'm finding it challenging to find dresses that fit her requirements in her size and that don't cost a fortune. She also has complained about being cold. Hmmm....
(oh yeah, she refuses to wear those super pretty bows in her hair. We have so many of them and they are so lovely and yet she will.not.wear.them. Period.)
Fortunately Ava doesn't care what she wears. She wears it all and doesn't complain.
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